Adoption Saga Recap {Week 15}

Where to start this week?? 

It's been a doozy of a week for sure!

See, we haven't scheduled our training with DSS yet. We were waiting until the beginning of this week to pick a firm date for the training since it spans over 2 weeks. The classes are offered during the week and on Saturdays, so we were wanting to pick a Saturday so that Chase wouldn't have to ask for time off - which is VERY limited.

And then it happened.

Chase's boss told their team that they would be working every Saturday indefinitely. She also said to plan on working every other Sunday for a while. 

You would think this would make me jump for joy since he gets paid time and a half. But it didn't. It made me go into full on Chicken Little mode. You know that mode - running around with your arms over your head, screaming 'THE SKY IS FALLING'! while people look at you like you're nuts. 

I have such a tendency to go there whenever things don't go according to my plan.  Thankfully, one of my best friend's mom (who I adopted as my own), Mama Janet, gave me a daily devotional book for my birthday. It's called 'Jesus Calling - Enjoying Peace in His Presence'. I HIGHLY recommend it to everyone.

Anyway, here's the devotional for the day that I got the bad news about Chase's schedule:

Continue on this path with me, enjoying 

My Presence even in adversity. I 

am always before you, as well as

 alongside you. See Me beckoning to you: 

Come! Follow Me. The One who goes 

ahead of you, opening up the way, 

is the same One who stays close and

 never lets go of your hand. I am not 

subject to limitations of time or space.

 I am everywhere at every time, 

ceaselessly working on your behalf. 

That is why your best efforts are 

trusting Me and living close to Me.

See what I mean? How awesome is it that when I'm having this HUGE (to me) issue with scheduling that God reminds me that He is not limited by time. 

3 days later…

Chase spoke with a supervisor on another team that only works 5 days a week. She told him he could move over to her team if one of her people wanted to switch. 

So that's the prayer request for this week - pray that someone from the other team will want to switch to Chase's team. This would free us up to take the DSS classes and would also free Chase up to do more weddings this year - which is always a good thing. 

Thanks for cheering us on as we walk out this journey. You are all very important to us!

Steps in Adoption Saga

1. Complete over-the-phone intake and provide email or mailing address to receive application {Completed 11/30/11 and again on 12/2/11}
2. Application completed {Completed 12/2/11}
3. Orientation at regional office & turn in application {Completed 12/12/11}
4. Complete SLED/ Fingerprints and Child Abuse Central register releases on all members of household 18 years and older {Completed 12/19/11}
5. Attend 14 hours of preparatory training to help with self evaluation of the types of children which would fit into our family
6. Fire and sanitation inspections completed on home by the Fire Marshal and DHEC.
7. Home Visits: adoption specialist visits the home and completes interviews for pre- placement investigation
8. Three/ Four References received and interviewed by adoption specialist {2/3/12}
9. Medicals on all family members
10. Provide copies of birth certificates, Marriage license and divorce petitions and decrees if applicable
11. During assessment we along with the agency assess qualifications and readiness to adopt
12. Approval received and we are considered for children along with other approved and waiting families
13. Placement committee selects us and notifies us of a child
14. We are presented full background on child/children for whom we are selected
15. We meet child/children and begin visitation with child/children
16. Placement occurs when child and we are ready for move
17. Post placement period begins and can continue up to 12 months
18. Finalization of the adoption in Family Court (Hallelujah!)